Bi and a guy?

“Mancho Mancho man. You are a, Mancho man!” So your Bi, and a guy? That’s Awesome! and you should be proud of who you are. So you’ve thought about coming it? That’s cool too. Lets explore the positives and negatives and the gritty and awkward stuff out of the way first.Being bi and a guy can be difficult. Perceptions vary depending on the person, but you will not likely be perceived at the same level as a bisexual female. (If you don’t believe this, go into your average doctor’s office and claim to be a bisexual male. Watch the eyebrows go up lol). A bi male has lots of stereotypes to contend with since you are part of the LGBT community. Now, You’re a dude, and life actually may be more difficult for you because some people will not understand bisexuality in a male. If you decide to come out and want to settle down with a girl or guy, do not be surprised if they reject you because your bi. (It sucks, I know. But it is a possibility). Some people cannot coup with having a boyfriend that likes both sexes. Its biphobia, and its just one of those things you have to deal with. Now, this is something to keep in mind, but be fearful about. Know that people will perceive you differently because of who and what you are, but also know that this is their problem. If they really like/love/understand you as an individual, then they will have to accept it. Now with all of that negative stuff in your mind, let’s get to the good stuff. Being an openly bi male may be confusing, but it is also great. The saying “The best of both worlds” applies and you have the ability of finding great people in not just one gender, but two. Get some! You have the joys of meeting hot, sexy, straight or bi women and hot,sexy, gay or bi guys. Sounds great eh? Well it can be in many ways. The saying “double my chance for a date.” May sound kind of bad, but can be true. Twice the attraction, twice the chance of finding a great person. Use your gift to its fullest potential and don’t be afraid to get out there. Also being openly bisexual gives you more of a chance of finding other people who are in your same predicament  to talk too or even hang out with. Personally speaking, I never thought about coming out until I got to college and met other open bi’s. I then decided to come out because of the open community and at least 13 people know. You never know what will happen until you pursue.